13 July 2021
Worked in the care sector for 15 years
Worked for Marie Curie for 7 ½ years
Ask any Nurse working anywhere and they will tell you they are not sure what their day will be like. We turn up for every shift and give our all and more to our patients and families. My role is primarily supporting patients and families in the community living with a terminal illness.
The best part of my role is constantly being reminded of the honest, selfless, dignified and humble people that live in Scotland. I feel very honoured to help my community and get a lot of job satisfaction from the people I meet and work with.
Saying goodbye to patients and families when someone is dying or died. Often we see someone for a short period, but the period is intense emotionally and bonds are created even within a single visit. When that person dies and my role is no longer needed- reflection on the person, their families and my input is always helpful to me to cope with this hard part of my role.
Wearing PPE at all times- not only is it uncomfortable but a key part in our role is communication. It’s been very challenging as a lot of our extremely difficult and sensitive conversation are done behind a mask. The non-verbal communication like facial expressions help when speaking to people and I feel the openness and warmth gets lost behind a visor, mask, apron and gloves.
I have dealt with this by reminding myself of the nurses working in the acute sector especially in wards like ICU where full shift working in FFP3. I don’t have to work in those conditions and think myself lucky.
Every charity has its role and is worth giving to. No cause is any bigger or better than another. Marie Curie is a charity that helps and supports people living with a terminal illness. If this is important to you then feel free to donate as little or as much as you would like.
I looked after a patient recently who died at home. I’m a male nurse in my 30’s. The patient was the same age as my father and he had sons all around my age. I felt this could be my father, these lads could be my brothers. There was a quick bond made from the start and I was able to support the patient and his family to the end. Having similarities in family circumstances makes it easy to relate to but often is the hardest and it resonates more.